As a responsible consumer, before parting with your hard-earned cash, it’s important to determine whether or not the benefits of a purchase will outweigh its cost. If not, then you’re better off saving your money.

For those of you who are considering the purchase of my new book, Delight Your Customers: 7 Simple Ways to Raise Your Customer Service from Ordinary to Extraordinary, I have a quick and easy way for you to assess whether you should make the investment or hold on to your nickels.

Delight Your Customers may not be for you if:

• you frequently roll your eyes in disgust after interacting with customers who are confused, misinformed, or otherwise “difficult.”
• you think the customer’s problem is his problem.
• you would prefer to chastise customers for their ignorance rather than take ownership and resolve their dilemmas.
• you feel that being asked to perform the basics of customer service (i.e., smiling, making eye contact, and adding energy to your voice) is an unreasonable request.
• you prefer to treat each customer like the last customer.
• you believe that enthusiastic, high-performing coworkers are “goody-goodies” who are only trying to gain favor with the boss.
• you think picking up the napkin or candy wrapper you just walked past is somebody else’s responsibility.
• you’re more interested in looking down at your text messages than looking up for the opportunity to serve a customer.
• you think it’s okay for a customer to wait while you wrap up a personal conversation.
• you don’t see a problem with smoking near a customer entrance, bantering with coworkers in front of customers, or walking past a customer without acknowledging her.
• you’re the type of employee who would cause the mortified Undercover Boss to remove his wig and reveal his true identity in order to suspend you right away.

If you see yourself in any of the above bullet points, then you may not fully appreciate the customer service message contained in my book. In fact, you will probably think I’m nuts.

But for those of you who are appalled by the attitudes and behaviors reflected in the bulleted list and are seeking a resource that will enable you to raise the quality of customer service that you provide or influence, this may be the best $12 you’ve ever spent.

Watch the 90-second book trailer.

Read the Introduction.

Preview Part One of the book.

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I had planned to post a blog this week announcing that my new book, Delight Your Customers: 7 Simple Ways to Raise Your Customer Service from Ordinary to Extraordinary is available in its Kindle edition as of Monday, May 13^th.

While I was thinking about the post last Thursday, I received the message below in an email from a local business owner, Mike Huggins. After reading his note, it occurred to me that it did a better job of conveying the benefits of the book than anything I could write. So I contacted Mike, thanked him for the note, and asked if I could share it on my blog. He said, “For sure! It’s at your disposal.”

I’ll let Mike take it from here:

Steve,

I just pre-ordered 10 copies of your book for the car wash staff and will be doing the same for the bar closer to the release date. I am super excited for it and will suggest to my car wash business enhancement group that it be our next read.

I also thank you for your generosity in sharing your blog posts. I forward them on to our staff from time to time and we get into great discussions about them. June 11^th (the book’s release date in print) cannot come soon enough. I assure you that we will be spending the summer going through your book at both businesses. If you ever launch a seminar on this or any other aspects of customer service, please keep me in the loop.

As a testament to your work, look up The Glo Express Car Wash and Arvada Tavern businesses on Yelp. I give your work/blog the credit for the 4.5 star ratings at both places.

Hope all is well and I look forward to our next crossing.

Sincerely,

Mike Huggins, Owner, The Glo Express Car Wash and Arvada Tavern (Arvada, CO)

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Last night, my 10-year-old son, Cooper, and I swung by Park Meadows Shopping Center following his basketball practice in order to purchase an umbrella as a gift for a colleague who is relocating from Denver to New York City. (Having lived there myself, I know the value of a decent umbrella on those rainy days when available taxi cabs are few and far between.)

We began our quest at Nordstrom. After lingering in the accessories area of the women’s department, I was approached by a sales associate whom I asked where I might find a nice umbrella for a colleague who was relocating to New York and was stunned by her response:

“We might have some in back but we don’t have anything nice. They’re the same ones you can find anywhere.”

I have a habit of refusing to reward poor customer service with a sale, so I thanked her and moved on to a second retailer: Michael Kors.

At Michael Kors, after glancing about the showroom, I was approached by a friendly associate who asked, “Is there something I can help you find?”

“Yes,” I said, “I’m looking for a nice umbrella for a female colleague.”

His response was amusing: “We don’t carry those this time of year.”

Surprised, I said, “Really? It’s April. You know, April showers bring May flowers… If not now, what time of year do you carry them?”

Following my rationale, he smiled and laughed. Together, Cooper and I moved on to a third retailer: Brighton Collectibles.

There, we were assisted by a helpful sales associate who produced a bright umbrella displaying a pattern of colorful pink and red cherries, which, unfortunately, was not exactly what I had in mind for a newly-minted New Yorker.

Sensing my disappointment, the associate expressed genuine interest in identifying an alternative gift by posing a series of questions (“Who is the gift for?”, “What is the occasion?”, “What is her style?”, etc.). Within minutes, I had located a suitable option among the eclectic mix of accessories on display.

Leaving the mall, I reflected on the quality of customer service received at the different retailers we visited. My takeaway was not that the customer service quality at Brighton Collectibles is better than at Michael Kors or Nordstrom. My experience proves that, regardless of a company’s reputed customer service culture, the quality of a customer’s actual service experience hinges on his one-on-one interaction with a frontline service provider.

In truth, frontline employees don’t merely project the organization’s customer service culture. They are its customer service culture.

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Illustration by Aaron McKissen

Over spring break, I stayed at a lodge in Breckenridge, Colorado made up of 46 privately owned upscale condominium units. Many of the units offer balconies with spectacular slope side views, spa showers, granite countertops, and high-end appliances.

Imagine that you were a guest at this lodge and noticed that the ice maker in the Sub-Zero side-by-side refrigerator was not producing ice cubes. When you phoned the front desk to report the problem, you were instructed to contact the intermediary company (e.g., VRBO, Interval International, etc.) through which you booked the condo to inquire about a repair. Meanwhile, you’re going to have to find another way to chill your martini…

Now, fast-forward to the TripAdvisor review you are encouraged to complete upon check-out. When asked to provide an overall rating for this property (on a scale of 1-5, with 1=Terrible, 2=Poor, 3=Average, 4=Very Good, and 5=Excellent), based on the above experience, how would you rate it? When asked to write a review, would you mention the broken ice maker or the front desk agent’s deflective response to your problem? What would be the tone of your review?

When I spoke with a front desk agent at the lodge about the relationship between the lodge management company, owners, and guests, I learned that 29 of the 46 units were managed by the lodge management company. Under this arrangement, the lodge splits the condo rental revenue with owners. The revenue paid to the lodge provides for the maintenance and upkeep of these 29 units.

The other 17 units are managed by other intermediary companies that also split the rental revenue with owners. The lodge management company is not compensated for the maintenance and upkeep of these 17 units. As a result, the lodge’s management budgets and schedules maintenance staff to maintain 29 (not 46) condo units.

If you were a guest occupying an intermediary-managed unit when you experienced the problem with the ice maker, how would this knowledge of the difference in service agreements between lodge-managed and intermediary-managed condo units influence your TripAdvisor rating and review of the lodge?

Given this dynamic, there is an opportunity for lodge employees to communicate effectively with guests in order to clarify how best to rectify problems experienced (particularly maintenance problems) inside the condo units. It’s important that lodge employees position the differences in the intermediary-managed versus lodge-managed service agreements as a matter of fact rather than as justification to deny service requests.

Beyond effective communication, lodge employees can offer solutions regardless of who manages the condo unit. Using the broken ice maker scenario as an example, the employee can offer to deliver a bag of ice to satisfy the guest’s immediate need for ice cubes and provide contact information for the intermediary company responsible for addressing appliance maintenance issues as an agent of the owner.

Most reasonable guests will adjust their expectations and make service allowances knowing the maintenance protocol for intermediary-managed units. But if they’re unaware of this protocol and misinterpret an employee’s response as passive or aloof, then they are likely to offer stingy service ratings and critical reviews on TripAdvisor or other social platforms.

A customer’s perception will be formed with or without an employee’s participation. But when employees take the initiative to communicate effectively and offer solutions to customers’ problems (whether or not they have to), they will positively influence their customers’ perceptions—and their online ratings and reviews.

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Last week, I delivered customer service training to the staff of a New Orleans hotel. During a table group activity midway through the class, a participant suggested providing complimentary coffee in the lobby each morning as a way to pleasantly surprise hotel guests.

In response to his suggestion, I overheard another employee say, “If we give the coffee away, then we won’t get pay raises.” Although I did not expose the comment to the rest of the class, it reveals a common misperception among employees: that exceptional customer service is a zero-sum game, whereby, if customers win, then employees lose.

If you believe the Bain & Company research that delighted customers (promoters) are less price-sensitive, have higher repurchase rates, and are responsible for 80-90% of the positive word-of-mouth about a company or brand, then clearly businesses are disproportionately rewarded for exceptional customer service quality. And this tendency is further validated by the  American Express 2012 Global Customer Service Barometer research report that, for the second straight year, found that two thirds of consumers surveyed stated that they are willing to spend an average of 13 percent more with companies they believe provide excellent customer service.

Complimentary coffee may or may not be the best way to delight your customers. The point is that, as you uncover those “little extras” that resonate with your customers, you offer them with the understanding that what benefits customers likely benefits the organization—and its employees.

Here’s a way to motivate skeptical employees who think about providing exceptional customer service in zero-sum terms: Share the above research and remind them that their discretionary effort (doing more than expected) prompts customers’ discretionary spending (spending more than expected).

And since consumer spending and demand are positively correlated, this can benefit employees through increased hours to schedule, overtime wage premiums, eligibility to participate in company-sponsored benefits, job stability, career advancement opportunities, etc. In a hotel setting, guests may further reward exceptional customer service by offering increased tips, referring friends and colleagues, leaving favorable reviews at websites like TripAdvisor.com or Hotels.com, or choosing to purchase ancillary services such as spa treatments or recreational activities.

Oftentimes, the “expense” (whether expending dollars or discretionary effort) required to improve the customer’s experience turns out to be an investment in exceptional customer service that ultimately benefits customers, companies, and employees alike.

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Illustration by Aaron McKissen

Once, while I was sharing a retail example of exceptional customer service during a seminar in New York City, a participant interrupted to ask, “But what if you don’t want the cashier to act all phony—like she’s your best friend? What if you just want to make your purchase and get the (heck) out of there?”

Knowing that such a question has the potential to steer the presentation into an unproductive debate between the two of us (while causing other participants to look at their watches, fold their arms, and mentally check-out), I posed the question to the larger group. Their comments ranged from “You can’t please everyone” to “It’s the cashier’s responsibility to read her customer and adjust accordingly.”

While I largely agreed with the comments shared during the ensuing discussion, it bothers me whenever genuinely enthusiastic service providers are labeled as “phony” or “goody-goodies” or worse… Instead of their passion and enthusiasm being seen as sincere, it’s viewed with suspicion—as an “act”—to earn a bigger tip, get mentioned by name on a comment card or online survey, or gain favor with management.

To all those truly enthusiastic employees out there who look forward to going to work and serving their customers, this post is for you. Jaded skeptics may question your authenticity but you know otherwise. Never dull the edges of your enthusiasm in order to fit in with apathetic or indifferent coworkers or to appease tenured employees who are content to simply go through the motions at work, relying on their seniority to insulate them from having to expend any discretionary effort.

There’s nothing phony about genuinely serving others. Exceptional customer service is not about masking your true feelings. It’s about actualizing them.

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Illustration by Aaron McKissen

I know what you’re thinking. Do we really need another customer service book? Before you respond, consider your last customer service experience at a supermarket, restaurant, post office, car dealership, or airport. How did it go?

If research by the ACSI, J.D. Power and Associates, Bain & Company, and Echo Research is any indication, U.S. consumers are unimpressed with the quality of customer service they typically receive. I too am tired of tolerating mediocre customer service as if exceptional customer service is somehow unattainable or simply limited to an exclusive set of companies like Nordstrom, Disney, and Zappos.

After working in the hospitality industry for more than 20 years, I spent much of 2012 writing Delight Your Customers. Certainly there are many books available on the subject, so it’s fair to question what makes this book different from any other book on customer service that you’ve read (or ignored) lately. Unlike many books in the genre that contain the obligatory story about the surly flight attendant or the inattentive waiter followed by a 5-step process that conveniently spells S.M.I.L.E. (or similar), Delight Your Customers opens with an important distinction that will forever change the way employees (both hourly-paid and management) view their job roles.

By demystifying its root cause, Part One of the book reveals the source of lackluster (or worse) customer service quality and identifies three truths common to exceptional customer service. Part Two presents seven behaviors (not steps) that, when demonstrated by employees, distinguish extraordinary customer service from the ordinary, transactional variety to which you and I (and, evidently, most consumer research respondents) have grown accustomed. (Sorry, there are no contrived acronyms.) Part Three provides guidance on ways leadership can shape a work environment that fosters superior customer service by design rather than by chance.

Illustrated with real-world stories and more than 200 examples from a variety of industries, Delight Your Customers is a resource that will help readers take their customer service from ordinary to extraordinary!

Don’t settle for ordinary. Choose extraordinary. (It’s always a choice.) Take a minute now to reserve your copy: Delight Your Customers: 7 Simple Ways to Raise Your Customer Service from Ordinary to Extraordinary (AMACOM Books, June 11, 2013). Thank you!

A story broke last week about the customer backlash against Maker’s Mark after the bourbon maker announced that, in order to stretch its supply to meet global demand, it had begun diluting its bourbon—reducing the alcohol content from 90 proof to 84 proof.

It turns out that bourbon shortages are not uncommon. Bill Samuels Jr., the company’s chairman emeritus, said that he presided over shortages in 20 of his 35 years at the helm of Maker’s Mark. (Too bad he didn’t preside over this one.)

Another well-known bourbon maker, Knob Creek, experienced a similar product shortage in 2009 but instead of diluting its product to meet demand, it took out full-page newspaper ads displaying an empty bottle of Knob Creek and the line, “Thanks for nothing.”

The ad went on to explain that, because Knob Creek is so popular, demand has finally outstripped supply. And since the bourbon maker refuses to sacrifice quality by reducing the 9-year aging process for its bourbon, there would likely be isolated product shortages for a number of months until the next batch is ready for bottling. I recall seeing the above ad in the Wall Street Journal during the summer of 2009, appreciating the message, and buying a bottle of Knob Creek within a day or two.

Maker’s Mark’s handling of its own shortage this month had a different effect on me. Rather than endearing me to its brand, it brought to mind the Aesop’s Fable, The Goose With the Golden Eggs. The greedy farmer exploited the goose for his own gain, ultimately killing it. Maker’s Mark’s recent misstep may not kill the brand but it certainly has tainted its reputation among bourbon drinkers and eroded its storied brand promise.

If there is a silver lining in all of this for Maker’s Mark, it’s that it may have less of a product shortage than originally forecast.

Last Saturday night, my 12-year-old son requested an order of cheese quesadillas for dinner at the Yard House restaurant in Lone Tree, Colorado. (You should know that, at this particular location, cheese quesadillas do not appear on the menu.) What the server did next was not legendary but it was entirely appropriate.

Most customer service blog posts that begin like this one, predictably end with the server delivering service heroics by letting nothing come between the guest and his requested entrée—regardless of whether or not it’s offered on the menu or the required ingredients are on hand in the kitchen.

But on this particular evening, Phil, our server, chose to be completely authentic, saying, “If it were any other night (besides Saturday), I would ask the kitchen (to prepare an order of cheese quesadillas) but I can see all the orders lined up from here and I know they would hate me.”

After hearing his response, my wife, Julie, looked at me to gauge my reaction and was somewhat surprised by my utter acceptance of his reasoning as our son made an alternate selection from the menu.

After Phil left the table with our orders, Julie and I discussed how much we appreciated his candor. After all, the restaurant was bustling: standing room only at the bar and a 45-minute wait to be seated in the dining room. We agreed that it’s okay for service providers—just as we do in our own work—to deny requests that (from their perspective) will be disruptive to the continuity of the operation and, thus, disappoint coworkers or other customers.

By choosing not to accommodate my son’s request for cheese quesadillas, Phil was making a decision in favor of the operation, his coworkers in the kitchen, and other restaurant guests.

Sure, we all love stories of service heroics where employees move heaven and earth to delight customers but, as Anne Morriss points out in her outstanding book, Uncommon Service, when employees are conditioned to deliver service heroics at all costs, “the cape gets heavy.”

Although the word “no” has been banished from customer service literature, the fact remains that “no” is a proactive word and, yes, there is a place for it—even in customer service.

Illustration by Aaron McKissen

Have you ever heard someone in a committed relationship say that he or she no longer loves the other person?

When questioned, he might say, “I’ve tried. Really I have. But the love just isn’t there.”

It’s no wonder the love isn’t there—because love (the noun) is a result of love (the verb).

In the absence of demonstrating love for another person, there’s only an association, an existence together. Heck, I have that type of relationship with my mailman.

As Valentine’s Day nears, it’s worth emphasizing that in a committed relationship, it’s insufficient to view love as a noun—a feeling that goes back and forth between satisfied and unsatisfied. Love must be demonstrated. Love requires action. Love is a verb.

It’s the same with customer service.

Many service providers view service as a noun—a role, function or department.

As a result, customer service is routine and lifeless.

It’s the difference between a drive-thru bank teller who processes a deposit, ending the transaction with, “You’re all set” compared with a teller who, while completing the deposit, notices there are restless children in the car and chooses to enclose several lollipops in the tube along with the customer’s receipt, saying, “I thought these might come in handy!”

Both noticing the children and choosing to enclose lollipops require effort. These actions are the result of the bank teller demonstrating customer service.

Going through the motions, whether in a committed relationship or with a customer, will result in a bland, routine, and predictable association. This opens the door for a competitor…

Do not view service as a noun. Do not see “serving customers” as performing a role or function that is defined by a script, checklist or some other process.

Service, like love, is a verb. As such, it requires action and effort. It must be demonstrated.

When done well—consistently, with genuine care and concern—you will make a lasting positive impression and ensure that your “customer” will only have eyes for you.